Connect With Your Students, Then Connect Them With The Curriculum

Before delving into the curriculum and content, it's imperative for educators to first forge a connection with their students. I speak with educators around the country about this specific topic often and remind them that relationships must always be cultivated before rigor is introduced.  This foundational step is akin to building a relationship; you wouldn't propose marriage without first dating, getting to know the other person, and ensuring a good fit. Similarly, students need to feel a connection with their teacher before they can fully engage with and absorb the curriculum presented to them.

Create a Condition and Positive Environment 

Creating this bond requires establishing an environment in which students can thrive, much like making a house feel welcoming to a guest. Just as the aroma of cooking can awaken a guest's appetite, the classroom environment should stimulate students' curiosity and eagerness to learn. 

Learn Their Story

This begins with getting to know each student's story through intentional questioning—understanding their background, interests, and challenges. Such insights allow teachers to tailor their instruction and disciplinary methods to meet the diverse needs of their classroom.

By prioritizing the creation of a conducive learning atmosphere and taking the time to understand our students, we lay the groundwork for effective education. It’s about crafting an inviting and stimulating "aroma" in the classroom that makes students want to "taste" the knowledge being offered. This approach not only enhances student engagement with the curriculum but also fosters a deeper, more meaningful educational experience.

Help Students Unpack Their Why

Following the establishment of a connection with your students, it's crucial to delve into understanding their motivations—unpacking their "why." Set intentional goals and cultivate a shared vision within the classroom. Incorporate relevant artwork, literature, and instructional materials to align lessons with their life aspirations.

Plant Seeds of Belief 

Every day, aim to plant a seed of belief in your students. Your instruction waters these seeds, as does your motivation and affirmation. Over time, these seeds will grow into trees, symbolizing the students' impact on others.

Push Away Internal Barriers 

Your role involves removing obstacles from their path, dispelling doubts, fears, and fostering a space where failure is seen as a stepping stone to success. Provide them with the tools and guidance needed to navigate challenges. It's essential to remain consistent, offer support, allow them to experience failure, and equip them with strategies for success.

Trust and Consistency is Key

Crucially, be someone they can trust. Honor your commitments, engage with their activities both inside and outside the classroom, and maintain the promises you've made. These steps are pivotal in building a strong foundation of trust and rapport before introducing them to the curriculum.

You're making a significant difference. By focusing on these elements, you not only teach but also deeply connect with your students, ensuring a more impactful and meaningful educational journey. Always remember, the most powerful tool at your disposal is to start with heart.